Many families are currently in an ocean of disaster. Never in the history of mankind, the number of divorces and loneliness have not achieved such results. Conflicts occur in connection with the contradictions of life, but also on their own initiative. As soon as a couple has moved to a new level - marriage, she will need to learn to get to know each other well in family life, to understand each person’s habits, to make concessions when necessary, to interact and give up some things for the good of another. However, not all married couples achieve positive results and then they get misunderstanding between them, conflicts and quarrels, and sometimes scandals with the final result - divorce.
To begin with, you definitely need to learn how to overcome conflict points through discussion with your partner. This will be the most painless and easy way out of a conflict situation. But a person by nature, prefers on the contrary to withdraw into himself and not share his secret corners of his soul with anyone, even with the closest person. When a person is silent about his problems, he can get sick. Misunderstanding each other, breaking up relationships, as well as heart attacks, stomach ulcers and nervous diseases can comprehend a person when a person simply prefers to remain silent and not figure out everything as it should.
Another question is when you want to discuss urgent problems with your partner, and he simply avoids this in every way and does not want to do it at all. It often happens that the wife tries to talk with her husband, and he considers it ridiculous stupidity, thereby the quarrel only intensifies. As a result, there is a scandal in which each side wants to win. Before you answer your soul mate, ask yourself a few questions that need decent answers. Think about the feelings you have in this conflict.
What upsets you the most and what makes you continue to flood the quarrel? What are you wrong about? Should you react so much to the answers of your interlocutor? What do you want to achieve from this person. A productive conversation and discussion of problems will help you understand your relationship to each other, help smooth out all the tiredness and misunderstandings between you. It is also possible that you simply do not understand each other, then all the more you need to discuss this faster. However, the woman is still considered the main fighter for family happiness and a cloudless relationship.
As Leo Tolstoy wrote: “Happy families are similar to each other, but each unhappy family is unhappy in its own way” ... Conflicts in marriages are subjects of discussion at all times and in all families. Discuss, share with each other your feelings, grievances, desires, but do not forget that it was with this person that fate brought you together, and maybe not just like that ...
